Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Family
I love my family a lot.
My dad, my mum and my sisters.
We grew up surrounded by love. Too much love perhaps with an overbearing "helicoptor" mum and a kindly dad who doesn't speak too much about his feelings to us girls.
I like holding my dad's hand and I still do whenever we go out.
I don't think I spend enough time with them.
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You know what they say about the choice of your life partner is likely to be similar to your dad (for a girl) and mum (for a guy)? He or she will tend to have similar traits to one of them?
I think it is very true.
You have only your parents to set the example.
Maybe that is why I don't want to get married.
Coming home and having to deal with some of their deep seated issues always remind me of the imperfection of human relationships. I always have to deal with them alone.
Marriage feels to me like a sealed fate.
Choose wisely, I have always remembered the words of wisdom from a Manila socialite.
Anyway, I may never make it there and have a family of my own.
My dad, my mum and my sisters.
We grew up surrounded by love. Too much love perhaps with an overbearing "helicoptor" mum and a kindly dad who doesn't speak too much about his feelings to us girls.
I like holding my dad's hand and I still do whenever we go out.
I don't think I spend enough time with them.
****
You know what they say about the choice of your life partner is likely to be similar to your dad (for a girl) and mum (for a guy)? He or she will tend to have similar traits to one of them?
I think it is very true.
You have only your parents to set the example.
Maybe that is why I don't want to get married.
Coming home and having to deal with some of their deep seated issues always remind me of the imperfection of human relationships. I always have to deal with them alone.
Marriage feels to me like a sealed fate.
Choose wisely, I have always remembered the words of wisdom from a Manila socialite.
Anyway, I may never make it there and have a family of my own.
